One can accept being hurt by a loved one’s behaviour (or actions) when they are unaware of it. What hurts is when they know about it and still don’t care.
They say, when you trust someone, trust them completely. You’ll end up having a wonderful relation or a wonderful lesson. But what do you do after learning the lesson? Do you trust that person again? What do you do when a part of you wants to trust them blindly like you’ve never been hurt but suddenly, another part of you refuses to accept similar deceit again? When it comes to ourselves, when we make mistakes, we would surely advocate being given another chance because we humans learn from our mistakes. But aren’t we sceptical in giving others that chance?
At times, it’s not our scepticism that stops us. It’s the other person himself. If a person makes a mistake and realises it, he would be careful enough to not repeat it but it seems meaningless to give another chance to a person who cannot even see how he traumatised someone with his behaviour. It’s the indifference that is difficult to swallow.
However strong we may believe ourselves to be, we cannot walk this big wide world alone. We need our loved ones by our side. And eventually, we all give them chances, over and over again. And at times, let ourselves down with such decisions. But life doesn’t stop. That one person you think you cannot live without today might not be there with you tomorrow. The one person, who was never supposed to let you down, probably will. That love which was supposed to comfort you for the rest of your life would probably go away. That relation which was expected to decorate your life might end up destroying your soul.
But the show must go on! Have faith in the Almighty! Trust Him. Love Him. Give chances to people you love but with a pinch of salt. Trust them but keep an eye. Walk out before it’s too late. Get yourself treated well because those who don’t respect you don’t deserve you. And your life will never stop for anyone, unless you let it. Be happy. You are totally worth it. Love yourself even if no one else does. And smile! You don’t own all the problems in the world and you never will!
Me.....
- Ipshita
- Indore, Madhya Pradesh, India
- I love the stillness of the wood: I love the music of the rill: I love to couch in pensive mood Upon some silent hill. Scarce heard, beneath yon arching trees, The silver-crested ripples pass; And, like a mimic brook, the breeze Whispers among the grass. Here from the world I win release, Nor scorn of men, nor footstep rude, Break in to mar the holy peace Of this great solitude.....
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